manipulation

Strawberry_79834 🇩🇿

6 days ago

Feeling Tired

1. My feelings Ever since I was young I always felt like I don’t belong anywhere or to anyone That feeling of being unsafe and anxious never leaves me I’m not living the way I truly want to I crave freedom My biggest dream is to be myself going out with my hair down and enjoying the sun without fea

Strawberry_82243 🇮🇳

1 week ago

Feeling Meh

Cookies_80069 🇮🇳 leave him, he’s using you. You’re young, I think you need to understand some men like this will use and find someone else as a replacement when he’s satisfied or done with you. Since you aren’t saying anything he’s keeping you for his satisfaction. You’re better than him and beautiful. Don’t let such creeps enter your life to ruin you. I did the same but I chose to leave. I blocked him everywhere.

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I need help!is it getting  toxic?
i was going through  depression without knowing for 2 yrs straight  then as I was going  for counselling  I missed lots of classes and the teacher told about my condition to classmates...it was the worst..all those sympathy at that time felt like a mock on me.
Then I suddenly  on social platform I met a guy!I was thinking of deleting my acc then his pp caught me curious so I thought of replying  to his text and see although at first I thought he was some kind of perverted stalker at first . We texted then he said he saw me in his friends story and ended up following me and although he forgot  how I look but was certain that he wants me.
we shared our secrets  as a let out at first then he asked me out which I rejected atleat 3x then I said yes inorder to use him to overcome whatever i was feeling and forget my ex too.Yes at first I was using him as I thought we'd never meet...he sended me flowers and not...i started getting attached to him ,i told him about how i was sexually abused by my own cousin he understood me and gave me time although i ended up doing booty calls w him and then that day came when he actually did came from delhi  to my place to meet me.I had no choice I went w him ,I was wearing  casual a fitting top where my boobs were popping big and a short .
he saw me hugged me and open the car door for me.He took me on a ride in the highway in an outskirt area he stopped.I knew what was coming  next ,he faced towards me and kissed me I tried to face the other side as I was flustered the he grabbed my face and told me calm down and close my eyes and kept on going and placed his one hand on my b**bs from inside and started squeezing although it was outskirt area it was a public space i was scared but he kept on going till there....
oh btw he is 7 years older than me!
on the second  date he took me to hotel for sex
it's been 1yr he uses verbal and physical  abuse almost all time whenever it is related to a male friend...and drag me for sex even if I'm lil busy he says stuffs such that I end up listening to him...I've become submissive to an extend I can never imagine.
he said Don't even dare to think of leaving him

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Strawberry_79819 🇩🇿

1 week ago

Feeling Heartbroken

i married a horrible man who pretended he loved me for a long time .... he hurt me so much in so many ways ( insultes, manipulation , fiancial abuse , isolation , and even physical abuse)... until he finally kicked me out of the house ( i was paying the rent and all bills and i bought all the fourn

Lemon_34495 🇶🇦 no you are mistaken for taking that disicion and you're not crazy for doubting yourself, sometimes we need to hear from someone else specially cause it is not an easy trip to take, hope you are not doing alone, i hope you have enough support to help you through it

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Pineapple_64523 🇪🇬

3 months ago

Feeling Annoyed

Dating for a woman is like shopping. And dating for a man is like a job interview that he paying for. If women have a choices Could they accept for a relationship with knowing that they have no control? ...... So, if women who chooses. how a men will be leaders? How can men leads, if that was by w

Pineapple_65193 🇪🇬 Therefore a successful relationship is one where the woman understands that she is a woman and acknowledges the concept of a mans leadership Qiwamah and the man also understands that he is a man and realizes that a woman doesnt always mean exactly what she says

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I don’t know how to say the right words about how I’m feeling. My mind is in constant stress people who say they love me manipulate me or lie to straight to my face. I know I’m not pretty I know I’m weak I know I’m overweight I know I should change it feels like I have to be perfect for other people because if they see my pain they go away I’m too dramatic my mood changes by the minute I get very angry I shut down when people confront me because I know I’m manipulative I know I’m hurting people I love. I lie out of habit I spend money way to fast hoping to get some sort of happiness but in the end I feel worse I don’t want to die but I don’t want to live I’m a hipicrite  I don’t stay by my fake values ive’d killed the relationships and trust with family and friends. I’m like my mother and my abuser   I’m fake and rude I struggle on a daily but I feel like I can’t tell people because then I’m attention seeking and being dramatic. It’s the same pain over and over again and people are sick of hearing it. I wish I could leave all my pain behind and move forward but it’s not as easy as it sounds. I feel disgusting and ugly my body is weak and I’m fat but people try to make me feel better by telling me I’m not but you just have to face the facts I’m 5’2 and 200pounds I either eat too much or not at all. Constantly being told that I should exercise or eat less. Brings my self esteem down. People don’t understand that I already am shaming myself by the hour I know that’s something I should do but I feel like there’s no point because I’m not good at keeping healthy habits and once I fail I will give up immediately. I know I have people on my side but I don’t understand why I honestly don’t know because I have lied and hurt so many people yet they stay. It makes me feel like I don’t deserve it and that’s not me wanting attention that’s me saying what I think yes I know I’m not perfect and I know I can make mistakes but I feel like my mistakes are extremely wrong and malicious. I don’t want people to feel sad or sorry for me this is just me saying what I honestly feel and I would hope that they would just listen they don’t even have to say anything they can forget for all I care but at least the truth would be out

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Pear_12697 🇪🇬

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

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