heartbreak

Marshmallow_81460 🇩🇿

6 days ago

Feeling Lost

i was forcing myself that im straight until i saw her.. i liked the way she talked her smile her sense of humor specifically her hair .. her cheeks after our meeting she decided to go.. but i did catch feelings for her.. I didn’t like anyone for years.. now im feeling okay that she left but i still

Avocado_80407 🇩🇿

1 week ago

Feeling Heartbroken

I start fall in love with a doctor I met him in hospital when I practice there because I study nursing and I don't want to love anyone and I guess he doesn't like me forever and I need to forget him help me guys

Apple_57254 🇪🇬

1 month ago

Feeling Emotional

Carrot_71203 🇪🇬 I wish you success

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i know that this is not the place for what I'm about to share but well I dont have other options so if you're gonna judge or give religious advice don't read this or comment on it skipping a post is an option and i know that this is not for everyone and probably no one here well get it but anyway. 
the d/s dynamic i was in  just ended and honestly it hurts because the connection was good there was chemistry and all of it was good k**k or not. it ended in a respectful way and on good terms but I'm just gonna miss it, every part of it the care the safety the play the mundane talks and interactions the jokes the structure the respect and the things I've learned which I'm still gonna do in honour of it. i was fulfilled, calm and happy in a way i never was before i felt belonging and not being seen as too much or too little for the first time and i experienced a lot of personal growth in not a very long time and i will forever be beyond grateful. and as much as I'm hurt I'm a million more times  happy for them, they deserve happiness and all the best and from the bottom of my heart i wish them everything good in life and all the peace and joy there is however deep down i just wanted to be part of it. but im glad i was for at least a while and i hope they remember me and smile♡ 
it was so good and safe and comfortable to the point i don't even want to get into something else even in the long term, i won't do anything like this right now because that's gonna be a bad coping mechanism and i don't even want to. 
I'll keep hanging onto the good memories and honouring it by continuing the self care and growth road they put me on the begging of and have my own healing journey they helped me with and on very hard days i have my physical reminder that tells me it was real, but honestly having that physical reminder hurts so much but 'look at the bright side'.
i keep having a lot of what if thoughts but maybe if any of those thoughts were reality things might have not been the way they were and honestly i won't change a thing about what it♡
and i seriously wish that i was good to them too because they deserve nothing but good so i hope i was that♡
I'll try to manage the gap that this left and fill it with something that will make me proud and happy♡ it might not be for them but it's for me, because of them♡ 
if anyone read this far and if anyone cares please wish them all the best♡

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Potato_72527 🇪🇬

2 months ago

Feeling Fed up

how could I ignore the feeling of being not enough I honestly know that I'm doing my best in anything but sometimes it isn't enough I tried my best to keep a relationship going but he went and cheated on me w a girl who he used to say a lot Abt her and every time they break up he comes to me like

Avocado_70349 🇪🇬

2 months ago

Feeling Drained

being ghosted again after being a perfect partner who understands, accept, appreciate, show care , affection and love just feeling like this world is very hard and not belonging to this era is it about me not being able to play games?

Potato_31970 🇪🇬

2 months ago

Feeling Disappointed

Every single day, my heart shatters a little more. I cry, not because I’m weak but because what’s happening in Gaza is unbearable. Children are starving. Families are being wiped out. Entire lives are turning to ashes. And the world scrolls past like it’s nothing. This isn’t just a tragedy it’s a

Strawberry_65203 🇦🇺

3 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Over the last 12–18 months, I was engaged to a man I deeply loved and had envisioned a future with. But our relationship slowly began to unravel in painful, traumatic ways. It became emotionally damaging, and at times, crossed into abusive territory. Including an incident of physical violence that l

Hazelnut_52786 🇪🇬 Let yourself grieve, but don’t stay in the place that broke you. Surround yourself with people and things that make you feel safe, and take small steps each day toward healing. Your future holds more than this pain—trust that better days will come.

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I have tried everything to hold on. I have communicated, compromised, supported my then fiancé’s dreams, and even justified the harm being done, both to myself and to others because I loved him that much. But instead of my vulnerability being met with accountability or care, I was shut out, criticized, and made to feel like I was the problem.

After returning from a traumatic experience overseas, where I nearly died, I came back changed. Raw, scared, and needing comfort. But my then fiancé told me to “get over it.” That moment stuck with me, and the pain of being emotionally abandoned in my time of need has not gone away.

Even as our relationship became more fractured, I held on. Continuing to defend my then fiancé, even to those who said, “This isn’t okay.” But eventually, my fiancé broke up with me, two weeks ago. And even after ending the engagement, my ex fiancé began sending messages that were accusatory and hurtful. Blaming me for the breakdown of the relationship, accusing me of “talking shit” behind his back, and demanding explanations for things that weren’t true. It became clear that rather than taking responsibility, my ex was more concerned with his own reputation.

In the aftermath, I confided in a close mutual friend. Someone I believed was a neutral and safe place. But this friend broke that trust, sharing vulnerable conversations with my ex fiancé and worsening the tension. That betrayal cut me deeply. It felt like being hurt all over again, like no space was truly safe. So I chose to set a boundary, deciding not to bring this friend when collecting my belongings, and instead asked someone else. A longtime friend and ex-coworker who is a true emotional support, to come with me.

Even with this plan, I still fear how I’ll be perceived. I’m worried I’ll appear “messy,” like the pain of the last few weeks will be visible on my face. Because it has been brutal, being abandoned again, misunderstood again, and made to feel like my trauma is my fault.

I’ve also admitted that in my darkest moments, I’ve questioned whether surviving that traumatic experience overseas was worth it. That maybe it would’ve been easier not to come back. I feel lost. Like everything I thought I could count on has fallen apart. I don’t know what to live for, or how to believe I’m still worthy of love and safety after being hurt so deeply.

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Watermelon_61508 🇪🇬

3 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

I had a fight with my sister and she said really hurtful things. It's not our first or biggest fight even what she said isn't new but something about today's fight made her words ring especially true. Maybe because she knew what to say exactly and how to deliver her words in a way that will cause th

Avocado_61070 🇺🇸

3 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Orange_40211 🇲🇦 hey..I’ve been through something similar, so I really feel what you're going through. It’s not easy at all, but I’ve learned that sometimes life removes people from our path so we can find ourselves again..Focusing on myself..my peace, growth, and the little things that make me happy..helped me slowly heal. Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting; it just means choosing yourself and your peace..

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hey everyone, I dont believe my situation is common, that's why I'm writing this just to here everyone's opinion.
i have been in a 2 year relation with a girl that I loved the most, I gave her everything I could, we are both 20, but the problem, is that I'm a us citizen and she's not. 
after trump got to office, and ice started their deportation activities, her dad decided to go back to his country cus he's so tired of all those situations, and low payment jobs.
Basically she'll stay alone, that's why, her dad and other people adviced her to marry someone else just as a business for papers.
I'm 20, not stable financially and I dont meet the financial requirements to give my spouse papers.
So, who decided to marry her? A friend from her job offered that. He started flirting with her, calling her love, and one day told her idc about your bf, she let him be, cus he is the only option. Everything was cool until her alpastor (pastor/priest) told her that if we dont take a step back from our relationship, the government will discover that everything is fake and it will be bad. 
Anyways I understood, eventhough it was hard. just a day after our breakup, that guy told her that he likes her, she felt disappointed but let it go, between those time, they opened so much to each others, started going out, he go to her house daily and spend time with her family, everything was just aa friends to her, but he reached a point that the guy talked to her sexually and tried to kiss her.
Here, she decided to stop everything, with an afraidness of being deported, so she kept him as a friend and told me, maybe she likes him, she doesn't know, she's confused, but it doesn’t matter cus she loves and it's different. 
Yes it did hurt me and all, but psychologically, there was explanations to her actions, and he was only a distraction nothing else. 
two days ago, her pastor called her again, and told her, if she doesn't do the process, he saw that she'll hey deported, and she has to let me go, and if I wanna stay, it has to only be a business.

so now, I'm just letting her go, trying to live my life just as a friend with her, but it really burns and costing me pain.

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Nutella_61022 🇺🇸

3 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

how can I move on from my ex even I've fiancée ? I Can't get out what He did it how I was down while he's having his life with his new girlfriend (he was my fiancée) he's now trying to reach to me but I refused to have any connections with him said iam engaged now I don't want any connection with hi

Coffee_58158 🇪🇬

4 months ago

Feeling Drained

it absolutely does, always remember my memories with people who are no longer here and just breaks my heart and i was sometimes i can forget everything but also sometimes i appreciate those memories but it just make me miss them more

Marshmallow_51920 🇯🇴

4 months ago

Feeling Alone

I had a dream that felt so real. It was you holding me like it was the most natural thing in the world, like we’d done it a thousand times before. I woke up miserable. Missing you. Wishing I could fall back asleep just to feel your arms around me one more time.

Watermelon_52431 🇪🇬

6 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

she friend-zoned me .. i know.. she made it clear tbh but i still fell for her she is just way too perfect and i am too hurt .. never confessed oc she got in and out of relationship multiple times and i am frozen whenever i try to see a girl I instantly compare it to her and get turned off

Durian_52455 🇪🇬 Thank her ‘cause she did a big favor for you. she didn’t OVERACT. She was realistic with you. She RESPECT your emotions. She didn’t play some love Games with u.

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Avocado_52276 🇮🇳

8 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Been Married for 5 years. He was jobless and I taken care of all his needs for five years. Been betrayed in many ways throughout the journey and still I sticked with him. But later when I found out that he is involved with another women also, that was the breaking point. And I applied for divorce, s

Cookies_33963 🇸🇦

11 months ago

Feeling Emotional

(part3) again, don't think anyone will read or understand.. but it was in my notes and it's hard not to be heard. 8 my heart is hurting so hard i wish i could make it stop i like this that i am just writing in your chat then deleting like nothing ever happened i feel like talking to you somehow but

Potato_83388 🇩🇿

Never dated & losing faith in relationships, is there hope?

I'm girl who never dated and everytime I see a couple I feel they r cute but then when I hear they broke up I lose faith in relationships and I feel they r all fake indeed so if someone here is stable in love tell me your story tell me that there is hope out there I don't have any experience and I want to change my idea abt couples in gen z ...see more

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Lemon_81066 🇩🇿

High asf and can't stand people anymore

I'm high asf I can't stand people anymore i know getting high is wrong but sometimes i get high just to silence the voices inside my head sometimes i feel like I'm gonna turn into a serial killer i start to hate people in this silly country i don't want anything from them iwant them just to leave alone sometimes i feel like i don't belong in this country those people are ridiculously stupid i feel they are worthless i just want to be alone i want them to leave alone ...see more

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Watermelon_83891 🇩🇿

Broke up with my best friend, did I do right?

after joining the colleg i met a girl we was a realy good friends we was very close to each other i was in love with her but she didn’t have the same feelings as me after one year of our friendship i tel her that i love her she said no nicely to be hosnet she said that we don’t have to ruin our friendship we kan stay as we are , i get depressed it was very hard but i said at least i’m close to her and she will love me later after to years of our meeting I lost hope in her and i tell her that we should break up you can’t love and i can’t watch you close and far from me in the same time , this happened 5 days ago and i’m very confused did I choice the right decision i don’t know if there is something else i can do , I can’t stop think about her in every second in my day ...see more

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