self hatred

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿

4 days ago

Feeling Ashamed

im skinny girl , my family always make me feel like im sick and i look idkn , my sisters bullying me for that because they know its an insecure, in every family meeting the whole family talk about my body and i should be obese so they can feel okay about me , they make me hate my body , i spent my

Candle_83599 🇩🇿 ppl (especially algerian society) will always body shaming ,if u were skinny, fat,obese,tall,short they always still talk about u and about ur body mytl9ou 7etta wa7d u should be confident u should love ur body cz it's a blessing from god always be thankful that u can walk that u can run that u can breathe u can eat some ppl even this life essentials my9douch ydirouhom bcz of illness

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Cherry_29219 🇹🇳

10 months ago

Feeling Depressed

I really tried this time but It didn't work I don't know why even I'm so kind to peoplenI care about them and I don't hurt their feeligs I wish the best for them I help who ever needs and in the end i failed in all my exams add to that I started to hate my self again after I decided to change

Orange_38568 🇸🇦 "add to that, I've started to hate my self again after I decided to change but I can't anymore" change may take time but the fact that you are even trying to improve shows that you are a good person or if you think you are not atleast it shows that you have the potential to be one

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I don’t know how to say the right words about how I’m feeling. My mind is in constant stress people who say they love me manipulate me or lie to straight to my face. I know I’m not pretty I know I’m weak I know I’m overweight I know I should change it feels like I have to be perfect for other people because if they see my pain they go away I’m too dramatic my mood changes by the minute I get very angry I shut down when people confront me because I know I’m manipulative I know I’m hurting people I love. I lie out of habit I spend money way to fast hoping to get some sort of happiness but in the end I feel worse I don’t want to die but I don’t want to live I’m a hipicrite  I don’t stay by my fake values ive’d killed the relationships and trust with family and friends. I’m like my mother and my abuser   I’m fake and rude I struggle on a daily but I feel like I can’t tell people because then I’m attention seeking and being dramatic. It’s the same pain over and over again and people are sick of hearing it. I wish I could leave all my pain behind and move forward but it’s not as easy as it sounds. I feel disgusting and ugly my body is weak and I’m fat but people try to make me feel better by telling me I’m not but you just have to face the facts I’m 5’2 and 200pounds I either eat too much or not at all. Constantly being told that I should exercise or eat less. Brings my self esteem down. People don’t understand that I already am shaming myself by the hour I know that’s something I should do but I feel like there’s no point because I’m not good at keeping healthy habits and once I fail I will give up immediately. I know I have people on my side but I don’t understand why I honestly don’t know because I have lied and hurt so many people yet they stay. It makes me feel like I don’t deserve it and that’s not me wanting attention that’s me saying what I think yes I know I’m not perfect and I know I can make mistakes but I feel like my mistakes are extremely wrong and malicious. I don’t want people to feel sad or sorry for me this is just me saying what I honestly feel and I would hope that they would just listen they don’t even have to say anything they can forget for all I care but at least the truth would be out

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Potato_83388 🇩🇿

Never Dated at 23, Is First Love Possible?

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Grape_81393 🇩🇿

How to soothe my sexual urges? I'm struggling.

hello, I'm a male in his late 20s, I'm pretty good in morals and and I'm at the very least committed to religion, but i found myself lately very onwards toward anything sexual, specially with girls. which i know is natural in the most part, but it's been affecting me so much and idk how to soothe my sexual urges. and no marriage is not an option for now. what you think i should do? ...see more

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Coffee_85499 🇮🇳

He broke me and I can't forget him. How to move on?

Hey, I’m really going through a tough time right now. It’s not just a breakup for me — I lost both a relationship and the best friendship I had. My ex and I were together for about six months. Honestly, I started it casually at first, but he fell in love and wanted to be with me forever. I told him the truth about everything, even about my age, but he still chose me. Later, he realized his family would never accept our relationship because I’m older than him. I still tried to save our bond every time things got hard, even when he started giving up. He finally ended things in February, and I was completely broken because it was my first real relationship and I truly wanted it to last. After the breakup, we stayed best friends and talked like before. For a while, things were fine — I even asked him to continue the relationship till I got a job, and he agreed for two months. Then we broke up again and went back to being friends. But recently, during an argument, I told him “you destroyed my life.” He took it as disrespect and ended our friendship too. He said he has no respect for me anymore and told me to marry someone else — even saying he’d bring that person himself. That really hurt me. Now, I’ve realized I can’t hold on anymore. I’ve tried everything to protect this bond, but it’s only breaking me further. I just want to let go, heal, and finally move on with my life. please help me for moving forward in my life because want he shared it feels genuine to me he didn't cheated on me but he broke me like I can never fix and never forget him ...see more

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