My family makes me hate my skinny body

Question

im skinny girl , my family always make me feel like im sick and i look idkn , my sisters bullying me for that because they know its an insecure,  in every family meeting the whole family talk about my body and i should be obese so they can feel okay about me , they make me hate my body , i spent my whole life wearing oversized just for that , even tho i have small waist im lil petit but im skinny , I tried all my best to gain weight in healthy and unhealthy way but didn't work at all .... I just idkn i felt insecure i need help

Candle_83599 🇩🇿 · Accepted Answer

ppl (especially algerian society) will always body shaming ,if u were skinny, fat,obese,tall,short 
they always still talk about u and about ur body mytl9ou 7etta wa7d u should be confident u should love ur body cz it's a blessing from god always be thankful that u can walk that u can run that u can breathe u can eat some ppl even this life essentials my9douch ydirouhom bcz of illness

Watermelon_82032 🇩🇿 · Answer

الله يعاونك و يعفيك من المشاكل و يرزقك الخير والسعادة والعافية والسرور و البركة

Cherry_83631 🇩🇿 · Answer

انا تاني كنت كيفك ايا بدلت  ماكلتي وليت ناكل بزاف و بعدت على ناس سلبية ريحت و سمنت

Jackfruit_78060 🇪🇬 · Answer

مفروض تبتدي تعملي روتين معين نفسي قبل بدني

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

seyit ana tani bsh mqdertch nzid chweya brk , dosnt make a difference

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

امين ، شكرا ❤️

Biscuit_83067 🇩🇿 · Answer

رانا فنفس الحاله نوزن 40 كيلو و قصيره 
كل ما نتلاقى بعبد يعطوني ذيك الغزره تاع اومقاد مسكينه كولي اسماني منعرف 
يقلقو حتى وليت منحبش نقعد معاهم

Marshmallow_70902 🇪🇬 · Answer

Don’t let their words get to you ❤️
Your confidence is the most important thing. Every body type is beautiful in its own way, and many people actually find a slim body very attractive.
What matters most is that you feel comfortable and confident in your own skin. Don’t waste your time trying to please others — their opinions will never end.
Just take care of yourself and your health, and the rest

Orange_80993 🇩🇿 · Answer

مام انا ياربي و معرفتش و ندير كل جمايع يقولولي شينتي علاش متاكليش و متقدروش تامنو شحال تديقلي ولات عندي عقدة حتا دارنا يما ختي دايمن تقلي رامي مشيانة و صح عندهم الحق و كيما سييت درت وش درت مسمنتش

Lemon_82768 🇩🇿 · Answer

a mad society

Coconut_82525 🇩🇿 · Answer

متخافيش مام نا كيفك بصح متقبلة جسمي اذا انتي مرتاحة فيه قلبك سليم تخمي مليح ترقدي مليح تقدري تمشي تهدري ... اخطيك من ناس اذا بيسك عمرهم ماراح يقتنعو ولا يسكتو شوفي واش يساعدك انتي ومتزيديش تحشمي بجسمك متأكدة بلي حلو كل الأجسام حلوة ❤️

Orange_81356 🇩🇿 · Answer

its just cuz they are highly and probably illiterate and don't know how to respect your personal space but then don't take it seriously u can't change the way they think , but u can change how u perceive it , its not important you don't have to be sensitive abt it don't over think it , they are old minded , body shaming is not cool , but its your family so just take it with a smile and get on ther

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

yeah ikn الحمدلله,  even all of that i tried to be confident w نتقبلو but chghol dymnn, since i was 13 or something and now im 19 ,tjr yjbdo ela my body , and thank u for ur support it means alot to me

Pineapple_83633 🇩🇿 · Answer

hi. I had the same problem i was skinny but when I had my period I gained weight I was much prettier and thicker and then I lost a lot of weight my family especially my mother she even bullied at me they were saying hurtful things about my appearance I lost trust and I went in a deep depression and I was in that situation for almost 3 years and even tho I ate soooo may thing to gain weight …..

Candle_83599 🇩🇿 · Answer

ppl will always talk about u bcz everyone have his own pov of beauty standards some of them will see u perfect & they dream to have a body like urs some of them will judge u in both ways u need to know bli the problem it's not u ure perfect the way u are , if u're beautiful in ur eyes if u see urself perfect for urself that's enough

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

yeah maybe

Mango_83634 🇩🇿 · Answer

i am in the same case, it's so toxic what i gonna say but just answer them buy ( i m not skinny you are fat) i did it and it works also i learned that the best way to gain weight is to be happy (hanya f hyatek)

Chilli_83580 🇩🇿 · Answer

i was in your place but( i am a guy )i passed all that time ,i know it not that easy but it the right way so first u have to start the bullking food like rize ect... and start hiding to the gym if that ok with your family and simply eat 🙃 serousely try to eat so much and that it if u wana talk about anything or need someone to talk to dont think twice text me and i will be glad to help u ❤️

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

yeah you're right , thank u alot

Apple_79376 🇩🇿 · Answer

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Sugar_78594 🇩🇿 · Answer

jamais t3amri rask b hadrt nas 3labali s3iba même ana kifk kol maychofni wa7d mn la famille yanda raki rgiga marakich takli...... mais sayi mawltch thamni hadrthom I start love my self bl3aks bdit ndir sport bach n7afd 3la my body and I'm happy with it 😊

Waffle_65620 🇸🇦 · Answer

1- You should see a doctor to know the reason. (for your own health before everything). 
2-Make sure that many girls want to be in your place.
3-Love yourself as you are.
4-When your sisters or anyone bullies you, say I like myself this way.
5-Be close to God and tell him about all the voices in your mind and the feelings in your heart.
6- Be optimistic as long as you breathe.

Pineapple_59087 🇪🇬 · Answer

Actually, being skinny isn’t a bad thing at all — it’s beautiful! Many guys don’t even like chubby bodies, so love yourself the way you are and don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise 💁🏻‍♂️

Candle_83599 🇩🇿 · Answer

& if u're not satisfied about ur body there's always solution just go to gym w u need to trust the process ppl need years to see results but trust me it worth it just always set a goal in ur mind which is u need to be perfect for u not for anyone dont change ur self in sake of anyone

French Fries_83518 🇩🇿 · Answer

:/

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

thank u girly ❤️

Toast_53652 🇪🇬 · Answer

firstly any change you try to make just to make others feel or see you in better way will never work you have to make any change for yourself not because the others view and just don’t listen to them i know it sounds like very obvious but its real view they want the best for you but in their way not yours and you dont have to feel insecure god made and making everyone,its not your responsibility

Pineapple_83633 🇩🇿 · Answer

but my body couldn’t . 
and then one day I looked to my self in the mirror and said ( I love my self I was alone in every situation in every sad depressing moment I won’t hurt my self anymore enough i love my self ) I started wearing thing that was made for my shape and type of body I started loving my body the way he is and I started showing everyone that I love my body …..

Apple_79376 🇩🇿 · Answer

et ça sert a rien tsmani a par si ça cause des problèmes ou des maladies

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

thts what I had to do always,  thank u

Pineapple_83633 🇩🇿 · Answer

try to watch podcasts about style and wear thing that are made for your body and love your body don’t let them see that they are hurting you . no . be confident. 
my advice for you is ( fake it until you make it )

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

you so brave, im proud of u

Peanut_54381 🇪🇬 · Answer

it's my favorite style skinny

Peanut_54381 🇪🇬 · Answer

it's good

Pineapple_82790 🇩🇿 · Answer

don’t give up

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

thank u ,a and u yeah one of my plans is going to gym , I feel like its lil bit hard for me cause idkn what to do , I started to see some girls program so I can do the same , the problem is I can't eat a lot even if I tried harder , and thank u for offering ur help

Pumpkin_82559 🇩🇿 · Answer

same problem the be like : tzidi chwiya tmouti 
poto trisiti 
asmani sinon mtzwjich 
and it hurtss

Biscuit_59744 🇪🇬 · Answer

فكك من الناس انا عن نفسي بحب البنات الي زيك كدا جدا فانتي جميلة و سيبك من كلامهم و هتلاقي حد هيحبك زي ما انتي متغيريش من نفسك

Blueberry_79752 🇪🇬 · Answer

نفس الوضع

Coffee_80453 🇩🇿 · Answer

i agree,  ur right specially the last part , thank u

Waffle_65620 🇸🇦 · Answer

You're welcome

Chilli_83580 🇩🇿 · Answer

it my pleasur if u feel like u need an advice i could help u ❤️