self doubt

Marshmallow_51920 🇯🇴

3 months ago

Feeling Alone

I really really wish I had a boyfriend. sometimes it feels like it’s impossible to love me. like I’m not enough, not pretty enough not smart enough, not fun enough, not good enough. I wish I was anybody else.

Waffle_52564 🇺🇸

3 months ago

Feeling Confused

Confused, uncertain, and unemotional. I have no emotional attachment to humans, I don't seek interactions anymore, I'm actually only here because I had a long conversation with Copilot. I find solace in writing, building stories and worlds to escape something I don't even know what it is. I like to

Chocolate_51290 🇪🇬

7 months ago

Feeling Annoyed

Really felling bad f myself, all the time i am trying to fix me but still faliin in the same shit , i acknowledge my fault and put some ways to avoid doing that and it's the same cycle over and over , why we being like this , weak and makes mistakes, when we will be unmistakable,pure , perfect like

Marshmallow_46399 🇯🇴

8 months ago

Feeling Meh

sometimes I feel like being happy is wrong, like if I get a 36 out of 40 in the exam and I’m happy about it it makes me feel like I’m stupid or like I’m not doing enough maybe? am I the only person who feels that way? I feel like I should be unhappy about things I got to seem like a better person

Mango_30553 🇲🇦

8 months ago

Feeling Confused

have you ever felt a strong desire to be friends with someone? i think my classmate is very cool and i really want to be friends with her but i don't know how to do that, she has many friends already why would she be intrested in being friends with me?

Avocado_44555 🇲🇦

8 months ago

Feeling Stupid

im soooooo frustrated, 😣 , i just had the worst job interview of my life, for my dream job 😭, i had the answers for alllllllll the questions but my fking memory decided to not work today, whyyyyyyyy, i cant even value and sell my self, how could they value me 😭😭😭😭😭😪

Sugar_35854 🇲🇦

9 months ago

Feeling Angry

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everyone things they are deep including myself nowadays and this is very annoying , 
everyone is thinking they are deeper than others. 
I'm loosing myself in this and confused with the existence of opposite sides, tired of listening to different parts of myself that I'm calling soul , psyche , body ...is even this distinction real or we just made this up with a bunch of people which makes it more real.
I was developing curiosity over judgement but my constant exposure to people makes me forget my values
(And I'm aware it is actually an opportunity to sharpen and understand the nuances of every value I'm choosing but I feel upset because why the hell I'm choosing this path why the hell I'm choosing more responsibility why the fuck I'm trying to build values , why the fuck I'm trying my best to heal and to be an adult to finally deal with a bunch of babies)
I don't care that my writing seems arrogant, cocky lacking humbleness because I'm upset , this is part of being authentic and real is being brave enough to show your truth as it is RAW and savage (I figured that out while I was building the value of authenticity and honesty that needs courage and bravery by their side with letting go the need to be liked or loved or whatever which actually lead to something much better appreciating/loving/respecting yourself , also there is another angle the trade off thing being able to see everything as a trade off you wanna be liked by others? You may give up liking yourself in the process or you can go the other way and of course I'll always choose the other way )
 I know deep down we actually don't know anything we just have the illusion of knowing because we can't handle uncertainty, we can't accept the fact that we have no idea what the fuck is going on we believe in spirituality, religion, science as something solid and accurate and we forget we are just guessing we just trying to make sense of things that doesn't make sense
We forget If something is meaningless or meaningful is just our choice we choose what's meaningful for us can be meaningless to others and we can't handle that we forget what we choose can be unchosen by others 
What I'm expressing now feels real accurate and permanent but it's not 
What is real is silence is nothingess is uncertainty is observation without interpretation

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Mushroom_19052 🇵🇭

1 year ago

Feeling Drained

I'm not a dumb person, I'm actually smart (i graduated with honors) so i decided to take more step into it, i asked to study in a private school. Because of my achievements my tuition for one of the most known private school in my city gave a huge discount, me and my family are happy about that so t

Apple_13601

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

Feeling so low about myself. critical about my looks. Low in self confidence...all because of the limerance I had for a guy. And the end result is , my confidence has shattered down. :'(

Banana_10227

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

Am I depressed or lazy? I have no motivation to do daily tasks like brushing my teeth, getting dressed, washing my face, and doing my hair. I’m in my room for most of the time too.

Coconut_4706

1 year ago

Feeling Okay 😐

I like this boy, he has brown curly hair , brown eyes , freckles and glasses, he’s so cute and funny I just can’t stop thinking about him, I don’t know why I like him so much I just do. but after one of my friends found out I like him she started “liking” him to (ps she has a bf) so I tried to stop

Lemon_4143

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

During my breakup, I went through an emotional collapse. I told my boyfriend about a previous instance of domestic violence. He said he was fine with it but then he started avoiding me. He made me question

Strawberry_4131

1 year ago

Feeling Bad 😞

I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for five years of my life. This abusive relationship harmed my self-esteem a lot. It also affected my exam because, during that time, I was preparing for government exams which I was continuously unsuccessful.

Waffle_72527 🇪🇬

I'm Not Enough & He Cheated | My Aching Heart

how could I ignore the feeling of being not enough I honestly know that I'm doing my best in anything but sometimes it isn't enough I tried my best to keep a relationship going but he went and cheated on me w a girl who he used to say a lot Abt her and every time they break up he comes to me like I'm js a replacement the feeling is acc eating me I cannot deal w it Ik it's not my fault but it hurts a lot and I acc always fear that he might not remember me at all I knew he would remember me if he listened to silver springs or lover you should've come over, n some songs but it's actually so draining I hate it I hate that he is w another woman who isn't me and I hate that I'm still aching for him no matter what ...see more

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French Fries_73516 🇭🇷

She Feeds Off Negativity & Won't Move On

I really don't know anymore. I have a problem with someone. She always nit picks problems. Even tho everything is fine, she'll always find a way to create some. At this point I feel like she just feeds off negativity. She will say she hates being angry but lacks the self awareness of realising that she seeks it out. She'll bring stuff up from 15 years ago and throw it in my face, we could have a normal conversation and she'll just yank it out of nowhere. To her that's normal, to her it's normal that she refuses to move on. People who've been to jail don't get shit brought up like that. Or that moment when everything was fine and then she decides to throw water in my face and tell me that it was satisfying... why the hostility? She can feel however she likes and not that many people bat an eye, but when I snap it's a big deal. I don't really know who's in the wrong anymore. I just really wanted to get this off my chest. I feel like it's unfair but I also feel guilty, like I'm missing the final piece that will tell me if I'm in the wrong or not and it will magically help me move on from this. I feel like I always have to be okay with everything but it's fine if she is sensitive to the whole world. Taking stuff and inconveniences from the past and blowing everything out of proportion. I don't know why anyone treats her like an adult. I want some piece and acceptance from her but that's never going to happen. ...see more

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