My advice after living in error for so long

Chilli_80819 🇩🇿

1 week ago

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خطأ وقعت فيه تتمنى غيرك يتفاداه

It doesn't matter how many mistakes you make, what matters is that you learn from the mistake and take a lesson from it to change your life. Advice from someone who lived in error for a long time

My D/s dynamic ended and it hurts, but I'm grateful

i know that this is not the place for what I'm about to share but well I dont have other options so if you're gonna judge or give religious advice don't read this or comment on it skipping a post is an option and i know that this is not for everyone and probably no one here well get it but anyway. the d/s dynamic i was in just ended and honestly it hurts because the connection was good there was chemistry and all of it was good k**k or not. it ended in a respectful way and on good terms but I'm just gonna miss it, every part of it the care the safety the play the mundane talks and interactions the jokes the structure the respect and the things I've learned which I'm still gonna do in honour of it. i was fulfilled, calm and happy in a way i never was before i felt belonging and not being seen as too much or too little for the first time and i experienced a lot of personal growth in not a very long time and i will forever be beyond grateful. and as much as I'm hurt I'm a million more times happy for them, they deserve happiness and all the best and from the bottom of my heart i wish them everything good in life and all the peace and joy there is however deep down i just wanted to be part of it. but im glad i was for at least a while and i hope they remember me and smile♡ it was so good and safe and comfortable to the point i don't even want to get into something else even in the long term, i won't do anything like this right now because that's gonna be a bad coping mechanism and i don't even want to. I'll keep hanging onto the good memories and honouring it by continuing the self care and growth road they put me on the begging of and have my own healing journey they helped me with and on very hard days i have my physical reminder that tells me it was real, but honestly having that physical reminder hurts so much but 'look at the bright side'. i keep having a lot of what if thoughts but maybe if any of those thoughts were reality things might have not been the way they were and honestly i won't change a thing about what it♡ and i seriously wish that i was good to them too because they deserve nothing but good so i hope i was that♡ I'll try to manage the gap that this left and fill it with something that will make me proud and happy♡ it might not be for them but it's for me, because of them♡ if anyone read this far and if anyone cares please wish them all the best♡ ...see more

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I'm finally choosing peace over people

I wasn’t always like this there was a time when I used to give too much my time my energy my heart to people who didn’t value it i wanted to make everyone happy even if it meant losing myself a little more each time i used to stay quiet when things hurt me, pretending I was fine because I thought being kind meant accepting everything but it only left me tired… empty then something in me shifted i started noticing how drained I felt how much of myself I was giving away I realized that peace doesn’t come from being loved by others it comes from loving yourself enough to walk away when you must stopped explaining myself to people who never tried to understand began choosing silence over chaos, distance over fake closeness now I’m learning to rebuild myself slowly take care of my mind my heart and my space I’ve become more selective not out of pride but out of peace my relationships are fewer but more genuine i no longer chase beg, or overthink If something or someone feels heavy i let go i'm not completely healed yet but I’m getting there i still have soft days, moments where I feel too much but I’ve learned that softness isn’t weakness it's strength that feels deeply and still chooses peace I’m proud of how far I’ve come, and even if I’m still a work in progress I’m finally becoming the version of me I needed all along ...see more

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