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Nutella_77284 🇬🇧

1 week ago

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Feeling Lost

I’ve just finished uni and am feeling kind of lost- I miss the structure, the learning opportunities the social aspect and the sense of purpose and identity that education gave me. I feel kind of empty without it and when I see other people my age having already secured jobs/travelling the world/getting married and moving out of the childhood home I feel like I’m falling behind and just generally feel low and the thoughts that I had as a teenager about never being good enough are returning. I’m a massive overthinker who always needs something to keep their mind busy and I’m not coping without a set of tasks and goals and my efforts to try and replicate this through online courses hasn’t had the effect I desired- maybe I’m missing the validation that comes from learning in full time education or the anxiety about never securing a job is taking over or maybe something else, I don’t really know.

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Potato_70485 🇪🇬

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1 week ago

hey there, don't be so cruel on yourself you're always good enough every human are, if you feel that you're falling behind then you have the perfect motivation for moving on forward, nothing gonna change if you weeped or cried, the only change in your life will come from taking action.. so stop thinking much, stop hurting yourself, stop thinking about yesterday and just take the right actions...

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Onion_63813 🇪🇬

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1 week ago

do you have real friends ?

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