I am married since last 19 years and after 2-3 yrs ..the disturbance started..my husband most of the time use to be outside..he was working in another city which left me all alone..I had noone to share my feelings etc ..also with my daughter also most of the time we were in diff city..I tried coping a lot..and was cool and calm throughout..had given my daughter good education..good nurturing..and did all other work all alone..in this 19 yrs we stayed together for almost 5-6 yrs But over a period of time I noticed that I am getting mentally drained out physically drained out even financially I had to manage my office..my work..household work.. daughter's studies..even support equally in terms of finances :And my husband thruout has been very very rude..he use to talk I'll abt my few friends I have iny life and I found no respect at all inspite of doing everything It's going on since years now..my daughter is traumatized and she doesn't want to talk to him or be with him..she doesn't feel safe when he is around..he expects me to have a close relationship with him but I simply can't allow myself to be close since I hv no feelings for him Not sure whether he is into depression but always he cribs abt his job..his daughter..abt me..that we don't talk ..and of we talk he gives us a cold shoulder and speaks raw language In this many years I have few friends who have helped me cope up with this..I am not thinking of divorce because of my daughter Though my daughter is okay with it Two years back I met someone and genuinely that person has shown very positive vibes towards me..we started talking and I found that he genuinely cares abt me which I had always longed for..it's only that I can discuss anything openly with him and he won't judge at all..he will listen calmly and suggest things..now he too is married and has a difficult marriage too..but he loves his daughter a lot.. Recently his wife has come to know abt him and probably me and has threatened him to either be with him or she will take away his daughter which I myself would not want..I told him to focus on his daughter as that's his priority..this happened yesterday [The very thought that he won't be there with me is killing me..I couldn't sleep entire night yesterday [ Went on crying I don't know how would I be able to stay without talking to him..we generally use to talk a lot more than meeting etc Pls suggest how should I cope with this situation Tears are just rolling down my eyes since yesterday I need emotional support ..from where should I seek that Should I let go this person..with whom I use to speak and I use to draw strength from his words Can u pls suggest what will be good for me in this situation

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