coping with pain

Waffle_72527 🇪🇬

I'm Not Enough & He Cheated | My Aching Heart

how could I ignore the feeling of being not enough I honestly know that I'm doing my best in anything but sometimes it isn't enough I tried my best to keep a relationship going but he went and cheated on me w a girl who he used to say a lot Abt her and every time they break up he comes to me like I'm js a replacement the feeling is acc eating me I cannot deal w it Ik it's not my fault but it hurts a lot and I acc always fear that he might not remember me at all I knew he would remember me if he listened to silver springs or lover you should've come over, n some songs but it's actually so draining I hate it I hate that he is w another woman who isn't me and I hate that I'm still aching for him no matter what ...see more

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Cookies_73529 🇪🇬

Need book recs for beginners! Help a newbie out?

can anyone recommend me books to begin with ? jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj ...see more

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French Fries_73516 🇭🇷

She Feeds Off Negativity & Won't Move On

I really don't know anymore. I have a problem with someone. She always nit picks problems. Even tho everything is fine, she'll always find a way to create some. At this point I feel like she just feeds off negativity. She will say she hates being angry but lacks the self awareness of realising that she seeks it out. She'll bring stuff up from 15 years ago and throw it in my face, we could have a normal conversation and she'll just yank it out of nowhere. To her that's normal, to her it's normal that she refuses to move on. People who've been to jail don't get shit brought up like that. Or that moment when everything was fine and then she decides to throw water in my face and tell me that it was satisfying... why the hostility? She can feel however she likes and not that many people bat an eye, but when I snap it's a big deal. I don't really know who's in the wrong anymore. I just really wanted to get this off my chest. I feel like it's unfair but I also feel guilty, like I'm missing the final piece that will tell me if I'm in the wrong or not and it will magically help me move on from this. I feel like I always have to be okay with everything but it's fine if she is sensitive to the whole world. Taking stuff and inconveniences from the past and blowing everything out of proportion. I don't know why anyone treats her like an adult. I want some piece and acceptance from her but that's never going to happen. ...see more

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