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If anyone can help me and give me some advice, it would be much appreciated.

I’ve been with my gf for almost 3 months now. We’re long distance, so it’s been hard to navigate our relationship and make sure our individual needs are met. We don’t FaceTime because she feels awkward on calls, and the most we have ever done is send voice memos when we wanna hear the other person’s voice. a few weeks ago, we were planning a trip to see each other, and it was a beach trip! Super fun, but as we started talking more and more, she seemed uninterested. checked out. asked her about it, she gave me the “school excuse” and said we were going too fast. broke my heart, I completely understand. fast forward a few weeks later, I’m overthinking so much. it seems like we act more like friends than lovers and I just want reassurance that she still likes likes me and isn’t just keeping me because she can’t find a way to dump me. I asked her if she saw a future with me. she said she can’t even see a future with herself so she doesn’t know. I don’t know how to respond to that. she said there’s “nothing that I can honestly think of that I genuinely want to do in the next few years”. I asked if she knew who she wanted to keep in her life. she said “ig idk”. what do I do. I don’t wanna get hurt, but at the end of the day, If she’s playing with me, I need to leave.

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