betrayal

Marshmallow_63584 🇺🇸

1 week ago

Feeling Frustrated

it is hard to put trust in people. I have a construction project and a friend of mine is the client. unfortunately I have to leave the country to be with my wife and have to be here now since our documents also needs to be processed already. I entrusted my project to another friend of mine and few t

Strawberry_65203 🇦🇺

2 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Over the last 12–18 months, I was engaged to a man I deeply loved and had envisioned a future with. But our relationship slowly began to unravel in painful, traumatic ways. It became emotionally damaging, and at times, crossed into abusive territory. Including an incident of physical violence that l

Hazelnut_52786 🇪🇬 Let yourself grieve, but don’t stay in the place that broke you. Surround yourself with people and things that make you feel safe, and take small steps each day toward healing. Your future holds more than this pain—trust that better days will come.

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I have tried everything to hold on. I have communicated, compromised, supported my then fiancé’s dreams, and even justified the harm being done, both to myself and to others because I loved him that much. But instead of my vulnerability being met with accountability or care, I was shut out, criticized, and made to feel like I was the problem.

After returning from a traumatic experience overseas, where I nearly died, I came back changed. Raw, scared, and needing comfort. But my then fiancé told me to “get over it.” That moment stuck with me, and the pain of being emotionally abandoned in my time of need has not gone away.

Even as our relationship became more fractured, I held on. Continuing to defend my then fiancé, even to those who said, “This isn’t okay.” But eventually, my fiancé broke up with me, two weeks ago. And even after ending the engagement, my ex fiancé began sending messages that were accusatory and hurtful. Blaming me for the breakdown of the relationship, accusing me of “talking shit” behind his back, and demanding explanations for things that weren’t true. It became clear that rather than taking responsibility, my ex was more concerned with his own reputation.

In the aftermath, I confided in a close mutual friend. Someone I believed was a neutral and safe place. But this friend broke that trust, sharing vulnerable conversations with my ex fiancé and worsening the tension. That betrayal cut me deeply. It felt like being hurt all over again, like no space was truly safe. So I chose to set a boundary, deciding not to bring this friend when collecting my belongings, and instead asked someone else. A longtime friend and ex-coworker who is a true emotional support, to come with me.

Even with this plan, I still fear how I’ll be perceived. I’m worried I’ll appear “messy,” like the pain of the last few weeks will be visible on my face. Because it has been brutal, being abandoned again, misunderstood again, and made to feel like my trauma is my fault.

I’ve also admitted that in my darkest moments, I’ve questioned whether surviving that traumatic experience overseas was worth it. That maybe it would’ve been easier not to come back. I feel lost. Like everything I thought I could count on has fallen apart. I don’t know what to live for, or how to believe I’m still worthy of love and safety after being hurt so deeply.

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Avocado_52276 🇮🇳

7 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

Been Married for 5 years. He was jobless and I taken care of all his needs for five years. Been betrayed in many ways throughout the journey and still I sticked with him. But later when I found out that he is involved with another women also, that was the breaking point. And I applied for divorce, s

Mango_11276 🇶🇦

10 months ago

Feeling Drained

I lost the ability to trust for some reason, idk why but everytime someone is showing me genuine love and loyalty, I keep thinking they’re doing something behind my back, or maybe I’m being betrayed and I’m not aware of it, is this normal?

Mango_28521 🇪🇬

11 months ago

Feeling Disappointed

I'm an introvert human and i always prefer to have less friends but close to me and lately i had or maybe still have , IDK but that person had all my trust and was the closest one for me and even made a bet on her that she won't let me down and she even called me best friend and that makes sense bec

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Biscuit_26081 🇧🇾

11 months ago

Feeling Heartbroken

I met one of my best friend today we did eye contact without any talking and my body started shaking after i remembered all what she did to me 💔 i really wanted to talk to her and our relation back but this is impossible because she didn’t even try to say sorry or try to fix anything and she is to

Apple_6478

1 year ago

Feeling Great 🤩

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Avocado_4172

1 year ago

Feeling Not great 😕

I was going out with my friend two days ago, and she made a situation that embarrassed me and affected me to this day. I should blame her or not, knowing that she is my close friend.

Watermelon_4128

1 year ago

Feeling Bad 😞

I found out my husband is cheating on me. He lives a double life. He even have a kid with this other woman the same age as our son. I really think i should leave him. Im concern is about my child. Funny enough he wants me to stay and says he loves me but

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Chilli_77815 🇪🇬

I find it hard to attach to people & trust issues

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