Is my crush on a much older woman normal? She keeps vanishing.

Question

hello everyone  . please help to find out if how I feel is normal? 
so im  interested to an older women who's three times my age or even more and I'm little girl of 19 years old .I told her my feelings 7 months ago she said yes but she keep disappearing  idk why she contact me with email even though I am quite sure that  I said I want a personal relationship.  I know she's older and perhaps she don't use her phone but I can't wait anymore I've been really patient with her.

Pumpkin_83939 🇩🇿 · Accepted Answer

To be honest, older people aren’t always serious about younger ones, especially in a same-sex relationship. She probably sees you as a kid and is just playing around. My advice is to look for someone closer to your age ,it’s fine if they’re a bit older. but someone three times your age isn’t really something I’d recommend.

Apple_83767 🇩🇿 · Answer

imagine u're someone three times ur age, would u believe and take seriously some 19 yo girl?!!

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

I know but look it's been 7 months and I'm always trying to reach her . and the last time I saw her I waited for her for at least one hour and half . perhaps she didn't take it seriously from the beginning but now I know she do knows that I'm serious

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

and sincerely for someone like me I'll do em an exception 🤡

Mushroom_83350 🇪🇬 · Answer

she is not a friend?

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

of course no

Apple_83767 🇩🇿 · Answer

i talk to her? i mean it

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

no thanks

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

if u were me would you wait any longer or just walk away?

Apple_83767 🇩🇿 · Answer

i'd write one last letter on email and give her a deadline then i go away

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

I'm very special also mature and I think that I could change her mind

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

but I really need her and I already told her about the deadline

Apple_83767 🇩🇿 · Answer

what do u exactly need? can u tell me?
and are u ready to move on?

Mango_83743 🇩🇿 · Answer

are u Muslim

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

i do need her affection and love and her presence I want her to be with me in the sweetest and the hardest moments I want to know everything about her and be close to.her u see now ?? I'm cooked

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

I can move on but I can't decide I'm not ready yet because she said yes and I'm.just waiting and I told her if you don't want whatever from me then tell me so I can go away but she said to me "what do you want from or what are you waiting from me?"

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

I can move on but I can't decide I'm not ready yet because she said yes and I'm.just waiting and I told her if you don't want whatever from me then tell me so I can go away but she said to me "what do you want from or what are you waiting from me?"

Mango_83991 🇩🇿 · Answer

yes