I’m a BDSM dominant struggling to find acceptance

Question

I discovered that I am BSDM DOMINANT. Most of people don’t know the reality of this and assuming only that it is only a guy who loves hitting and hurting others while this is not true. I can’t find any lady she accepts that fetish because we are not allowed to say this according to habits and society obligations.

I have another concern also that I am always seeking for a woman 45+ while I am younger than this.

May I have your advice!!

Avocado_49352 🇪🇬 · Accepted Answer

أنت طبيعي، وميولك تخصك. بس دور على البيئة الصح اللي تفهمك وتقدّرك، وخلّك واثق بنفسك ومرتاح

Coffee_52706 🇪🇬 · Answer

I respect your honesty — that’s a good first step. But it’s also important to understand that personal preferences, whatever they are, should be based on mutual respect and emotional balance. Not everyone will share your interests, and that’s okay. What matters most is finding someone who truly aligns with you in a healthy and respectful way.

As for your attraction to older women, there’s nothing

Coffee_52706 🇪🇬 · Answer

As for your attraction to older women, there’s nothing wrong with that — but ask yourself: is this coming from genuine emotional connection, or are you trying to fill a certain emotional gap? Understanding yourself better will help you choose what truly suits you.

Pumpkin_52727 🇪🇬 · Answer

I respect your honesty but I wonder if you’ve ever thought about talking to a therapist. Sometimes the way we feel about certain things can be connected to past experiences, even ones we don’t fully realize. Therapy can be a really supportive way to explore that and take care of yourself.

Onion_52758 🇪🇬 · Answer

First We respect You
But ask yourself if is it normal or not ?
based on 
if anyone like hitting and hurting or not 
i think you must change your habits 
so you can consult any therapist to help

Popcorn_52587 🇺🇸 · Answer

This issue is not normal because you need someone older than you. This is not suitable for you and is not normal. You must accept the matter yourself and strive to be yourself and know that these methods will affect you negatively and exhaust you. The matter is due to the memories of childhood that you went through in your life. This is the reason, but rest assured, everything will return to norma

Pineapple_32037 🇪🇬 · Answer

Thanks Cookies. I hope too

Pineapple_32037 🇪🇬 · Answer

Thanks Biscuit, Do you recommend a trusted therapist

Pineapple_32037 🇪🇬 · Answer

I can’t find a partner unfortunately

Pineapple_32037 🇪🇬 · Answer

شكرا جدا. أنا فعلا مش عارف اجد بيئه أعيش بيها 
ولا شريكة تفهم ان ده طبيعي

Pumpkin_52727 🇪🇬 · Answer

Actually, no, but I heard that people I know were talking about an app called Shezlong. you can give it a try