I having a hard time understanding what I want , I was married and had 2 beautiful kids, but after the divorce I'm afraid of man, after 3 years of my divorce I met a handsome and really sweet man, a man like my father, sweet caring , and amazing but I feel like he is very childish not because of the age gap cuz he is 3 years younger than me, I'm 27 and he is 24 , the age gap isn't the problem, I'm afraid that I can't really on him financially, I don't care about money and all I do work and I can take care of my self , but he can't even take care of him self, he prefers going to play PlayStation than go search for work, emotionally yes he is amazing and very sweet and he loves me and I love him the most, but I see my self as an adult who wakes up every day for work, someone who can not stay without work, but he is very very very lazy when it comes to work , I don't want to hurt his feelings, I know he is trying but he is not trying enough, I don't want to loose him because of this , I just want him to be able to pay for his own needs and take care of him self only , I'm not waiting anything from him I can take care of my self and my kids, I don't know what should I do or if I will be able to marry him of he doesn't change.....

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